Dating a guy with spina bifida
I am stronger than most and very very resilient We think outside the box Disabled People are amazing at seeing the bigger picture, there is no problem we can’t face. Saving kids in Africa makes them stand open mouthed I’m no scrounger Despite my barriers, I have a job I love.
It’s not fancy or big hitting but I enjoy it, I won’t ask you for money Creative Because having a difficulty makes it easy to be a creative power, difference is good. I live for today I know how easy life can change, in a blink of an eye.
It was a lighthearted piece, and I thought that like all the others it would never be read. A few days later, it had gone mental RTs via Twitter, countless shares Facebook and it was even discussed by Men in my local. I thought I’d give you eligible men 49 reasons why dating me is just amazing.. discrimination or just personal frustration I have always been massively determined,and apparently Men like a Woman who knows her own mind?
Best Seat in the House So your new girl is Disabled, . Not only that but if she loves music like I do, you will go to gigs. On the cabbage patch is where you will sit, closer than ever to the stage with handy access to the bar! Always smiling, always polite Your Mother is going to Love Me….
Water fights Bizarre as this may may sound but according to government Disabled People are exempt from hose pipe bands. Because racing trolleys in the Supermarket at 2am when drunk is so last season…
No further point needed Never use stairs again Love in an Elevator was written about me.. This will never be me I can stand up for myself I have dealt with enough discrimination to have a cutting remark in response to some jerk though it would be nice to have a gentlemen defend my honor occasionally I’m always happy to talk You might have to kiss me shut me up…
There is no escaping the fact that I will get accosted and occasionally offended by the odd twat. Make your life easier You may not think that I can teach you how you can make life easier, but I can, Years of finding simple tasks a slight struggle have meant I have done things my own way…
I am however an expert in remaining polite and and nice, I’m just the kinda girl you could take home to your Mum. If I ever by some miracle gain the ability to walk though you may be in big trouble! You be surprised what I can open with just my teeth!
A few years ago, I used to blog under a different account, It was general ramblings about the things that entered my head, nobody really read it, or took much notice. Wheelchairs are far more superior and don’t have wonky wheeels!
That was until I published a post called 10 reasons why Dating a Disabled Girl is the best thing you’ll Ever do. Fancy Gadgets My house is equipped with Gadgets to help me round the house, be it a through floor lift a personal washing toilet, massive wet room or a bed that sits you up, loving me could feel futuristic Determined I have dealt with massive amounts of crap in my life, whether it be .